Monday, December 1, 2008

Thanks Everyone!

I just wanted to give a quick update on the situation here in Thailand, because my parents and Josh have been getting a lot of worried phone calls.
As, most of you know the two main airports in Bangkok have been shut down for a week due to protesters. The protesters (known as People's Alliance of Democracy) are upset with the government and want the Prime Minister to resign from his current post. They have stated that they will not leave the airports until he steps down. Thus, leaving thousands of people stranded in Thailand, with no easy way out. Josh was suppose to fly out last week to Bangkok, but instead spent 6 hours at the airport trying to deal with the situation. We were really frustrated because we were both excited to see each other after 2 moths apart. However, I promised him we would use our airline vouchers for a GREAT vacation in 2009!!

As for Molly and I, we are two brilliant girls that have great travel smarts and will be safe!! Thank you for all the thoughts and prayers, I know that my family is grateful for the support, as am I!! I will keep updating my blog about past events and current as Molly and I make our way back to Bangkok and further south. I appreciate all the great feed back I have received from people about this blog....it has been a rewarding couple of months and I have been honored to share so many moments with everyone. See ya soon:)

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Crash Course in First Aid!

Molly and I went to a place called the Wildflower Home, about 1 hour outside Chiang Mai. This is a safe haven for women and children that had to leave their home for one reason or another. Many of the women were abused, while some were abandoned with no means to support themselves or their children. The Wildflower Home is situated on a nice piece of property with a small farm and receive many donations from outlying communities. The home is in the process of trying to make their farm into a small business. Our organization, MyProThailand, has a group of volunteers from a business school coming in January to help the Wildflower Home set up the program. This program will teach the women how to make enough produce to sell at markets, which will help make money for their families.
Our job for the day was to discuss health issues with the women. We had received a list of topics the woman would like to go over, so Molly and I decided which ones would be the most important to discuss. We only had three hours and didn't want to overwhelm them with too much information, so we picked topics we thought would be of interest to them.

We arrived at the Wildflower Home just in time, because all the children were being put down for their afternoon naps, so the mothers could give us their undivided attention:) The women were very friendly and eagerly awaiting our arrival. There was a little room in one of the houses that was all set up with tables, chairs, and even a white board. Molly and I had split up the issues, so I began with hygiene...HANDWASHING....the most important lesson of the day!! The ladies were great and asked tons of questions. Molly and I did a skit with colored paper showing them how easy it is to pass germs from person to person and even made them wash their hands! We also talked about brushing teeth and how important it is for them to make their children begin brushing at an early age. Molly then talked about the developmental stages and what milestones the women should be looking for in their children at each age. Once again they were raising hands and giving us scenarios about their own children and the growth process they observe. It was great to listen to them and help them problem solve issues. We also talked about first aid and how to help someone if they were choking. A couple of women in the class were pregnant and asked some personal questions about themselves and their unborn child. They were younger women and each seemed a little nervous about what to expect.
After the 3 hours (the children were crying now, because they were awake), we received a tour of the farm and it was fantastic to see the women so excited about making it "on their own." We also played with the children and answered more health questions before we went back to Chiang Mai. We left feeling like we helped out, even if it was only in a small way.




Organic Cooking...Yes Organic!!

Molly and I went to an Organic Thai Cooking Class this weekend. Yes...I know that everyone is laughing because I LOVE organic food, so when I heard about this place I couldn't resist! We began the day going to an outdoor market where our teacher showed us all different varieties of rice and the types we would be using in our dishes. We then proceeded to walk around and look at all the beautiful fresh fruits and veggies (once again I could only wish we had this in the States:). When we were done, we hopped back in the truck and headed to the farm. The farm is owned and operated by a local Thai family about 30 minutes outside of the city. As we arrived two little girls came running around the corner yelling "hello." Our teacher, Nam, started laughing and told us that those were his daughters. Nam started this farm a couple of years ago and it has grown into a great business. His wife, mother, mother-in-law, father, etc, all help with the farm and cooking classes. So, of course it made me even happier that we spent a little extra money on the class because we were helping with sustainability and a local family:)

We started off with a quick tour of the farm and Nam showed us what they do to grow "organic" and what produce we would be using in our dishes. We then went to a gazebo, which was over a pond, sat down at the table and began to prepare our food. We each choose 5 dishes to cook, so Molly and I picked different ones so we could share and hopeully help each other cook them back in the States. My choices were; red curry paste, red curry with chicken, thai vegetable soup, pad thai, papaya salad, and mango with sticky rice. We first pounded our ingredients for the curry using a mortar and pestle (which is a staple kitchen tool in Asia). I only used two chilies for my paste because I do not like food too spicy; however, some people used 4 or 5! After our paste became a nice constancy we moved into the kitchen and started making the rest of the dish. I realized that when I cook with coconut milk back in the States, I do not use nearly enough. Thai people LOVE coconut milk, as do many Asian countries and Molly and I have became addicted to it also.

After we made three of our dishes (red curry with chicken, thai vegetable soup, papaya salad) we sat down and ate! I loved everything that Molly and I cooked; however, my favorite dish was the papaya salad. It is so delicious and has such a good crunch! Everyone in our group passed their dishes around so we all could have a little taste of everything. We then walked around and let the food rest because we knew we had two more dishes to make!!
Our last meals we made were pad thai and mango with sticky rice. Hands down Thai dessert is wonderful! They use so much coconut milk and it adds a little flavor of heaven:) Even though we were full, we devoured the dessert, plus tasted everyone else's. We had such a great group of people to cook with, which always makes any experience better, plus Nam made us laugh the whole time...I can't wait to cook some of these things for my family!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Loi Krathong

We arrived in Chiang Mai, just in time for a huge festival...the Loi Krathong! It is a celebration that is held on the full moon of the 12th month in the Thai lunar calendar (in the western calendar this usually falls sometime in November). Thousands of people come to Chiang Mai every year to buy or make floating lanterns-made of banana leaves and flowers- to float down the river to honor and thank the Goddess of Water (Phra Mae Khongkha). The symbolism of releasing the lantern is to rid yourself of resentment and anger and begin fresh with a clean soul. All week from November 11th to the 14th, the city was an amazing scene of different colors, smells, and amazing sights. For three days there were parades, Thai dancing, and millions of lanterns being sent off to make their journey down the river. However, Molly and I got to experience something more amazing and truly beyond words, that I will try to bring to life in this blog.

Our Thai language instructor informed us of a ceremony that is held every year at a Meditation Centre 30 minutes outside of Chiang Mai in honor of the Buddha. Instead of sending lanterns down the river, they send Thai balloon lanterns up in the evening sky called Khom Loys. Not just one or two hundred, but THOUSANDS all at the same time!!!

When we arrived to our destination, we had to walk down a road about 300 yards to the grounds of the ceremony. On our way, people were dancing and singing, food vendors were selling fantastic traditional Thai cuisine and hundreds of people were selling Khom Loys. As we arrived to the Meditation Center, the vibe was electrifying. Thousands of people were sitting in a huge field facing a giant Buddha. There was one single path, about 150 yards, that led directly to the Buddha. Many monks were seated around him, facing the crowd of people. At that moment Molly and I decided to buy a balloon and participate in the festival as much as we could. As we bought our Khom Loy, some young Thai students decided they wanted to take us "under their wing." They helped us find a great spot in the field of people to set up our balloon, plus they kept us up to speed on everything that was happening.




First, a parade went from the entrance half-way down to the Buddha and then back again. Second, the head monk said a long pray (45 minutes) and many of the Thai people sat with their hands together and their heads bowed in reverence. Thirdly, the helpers came around and lit the tall candles that each person had in front of them and we said a prayer in front of the flame, before we lit our Khom Loys. Fourthly, we lit our Khom Loys and let them fill with hot air... the announcer counted down and we made a wish before sending it up into the evening sky! What an amazing sight 5000 thousand balloon lanterns being released into the night sky all at once. At that moment (just like in Angkor Wat) I wanted everyone I loved with me, especially my husband....he would have loved it and with his artistic eye he would have gotten amazing photos!
Everyone was laughing and singing, fireworks were exploding in the sky, but the true joy was looking up and seeing so many lanterns float away into the night air. Molly and I were giggling like school girls because we were so excited about what we were seeing and experiencing....what a rush!
Some of the Khom Loys, would fall down or land into tress, but surprisingly no one was injured and nothing caught on fire. I told Molly that the US Fire Department would NEVER let this happen..what a fire hazard:) A moment that will forever be cherished and hopefully, someday I will be able to come back and share it will my husband!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

We LOVE Chiang Mai!! It is a really different from Saigon ( a lot quieter) and reminds me of Ann Arbor. We are located in the "artsy" post-college district and the people are wonderful and friendly, plus the weather is alot cooler (no more heat rash for me:) Our family is very kind and really enjoy feeding us. Every morning Molly and I have an assortment of food (at least 4-5 dishes) that we can eat from...and they are very delicious...which means we just keep eating because its there (such an American thing to do)! And then for dinner, it is the same thing....oh, and if we come home anytime during the day they will bring us more food...my stomach is already becoming larger:)

My first week at FOPDEV was really great. Felcity (otherwise know as F) has been very helpful in explaining the project we will be working on and what the organization does. She will be in Thailand for a year with her husband working on her PhD, so she can speak and write Thai very well, which helps me out during meetings. Our schedule for the next month will basically be going to homes and observing end-of-life care, as well as having meetings with communities to talk with them about death and dying. I will be doing write-ups at each home visit about what the family members are doing right and what they could do better to help their loved one. F, will be taking notes, observing, and interviewing the family and patient. Like I stated before, I really believe that this is going to be a great learning experience for me as I begin to pursue my masters degree in a field that is not exactly "bedside nursing."



Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Chiang Mai

Molly and I arrived in Bangkok Thursday afternoon and decided we wanted to get to Chiang Mai as soon as possible. We hopped on a bus and went to the train station where we bought ticket forthe overnight train...the only kicker was the sleeper train was sold out, so we had to sit for 13 hours! We were extremely giggly from lack of sleep and thought everything was funny, even the squat toilet, which was very hard to use while the train was moving....it ended up being quite an experience;)

We arrived in Chiang Mai on Friday morning (Halloween) and went to a guest house where we relaxed and laid out in the sun. We decided to take an Ambien for the first time that night, so we could have a good night sleep and WOW did that medication work! I fell asleep and didn't move for 8 hours...I woke up in the same position I fell asleep in. We met up with our program coordinators, Mim and Andy for lunch on Saturday and they showed us around Chiang Mai and gave us our itinerary for the next month...which is very busy! We have yoga classes, language classes, meetings, cooking classes, hikes etc. Everynight we have something planned after work; however, we love it because we get to experience has much as possible in such a short time frame!

I will be working for an NGO called FOPDEV. It is an organization that has many different projects with the elderly people in Chiang Mai. One of my soon-to-be coworkers is an anthropology PhD student at Harvard doing her research on palliative care in the elderly population. I am really excited for this opportunity to work with her and do different kinds of nursing care and research. I believe that it will only help me with my future studies and interests. Plus, Laura (my sister-in-law) gave me a great suggestion and hopefully by helping Fecility with some of her research I can get my name in her publication:)


On Sunday, Molly and I went to Wat Doi Suthep (a huge temple on top of a mountain), also known as the "Jewel" of Chiang Mai. It was a really great experience. We went a bought three items that people give to the Buddha when praying; a lotus flower, incense, and candles. We proceeded to walk around the innermost part of the temple three times with our hands together in front of our face praying. We then lite the incense and candle (saying a pray while lighting the candle), then we placed the lotus flower in a basket in front of the temple. Afterwards, we went to where the monk was sitting and got a bracelet placed on our wrist for good luck. However, a monk is not allowed to touch women, so we went to his "helper" who placed it on us. We then walked around the rest of the temple, noticing all the amazing vibrate colors everywhere. Not just the temple and statues, but the flowers and drapery.

When we arrived back in the city we went to meet our "family." They were very welcoming and friendly, plus our room is HUGE with a great big bed that has western style pillows. The family that lives in this house is an uncle, a great uncle, three sisters, and two nephews (15 and 8 years old). The ladies are in charge of a noodle shop which is located on the first floor. We live on the second floor and the family lives on the third floor. Our first dinner was enormous, so Molly and I can only imagine what our meals are going to look like in the coming month....the weight might start piling on:)

Friday, October 31, 2008

Cambodia

Our last weekend in Vietnam, Molly and I decided to take a trip to Angkor Wat in Cambodia. The bus trip was about 12 hours and very uneventful (on the way there...a whole other story about the way back:) As soon as we crossed the border, the atmosphere changed. The structure of the houses were poorly made, more children with inadequate clothing running around and the Cambodian people were very skinny and malnourished looking. However, with the recent horrific history of the country it was not surprising. The average income a year is $320 per family. The estimated number if killings during the Khmer Rouge Era is over 300 thousand and out of 65,000 monks only 3,000 survived....a staggering number! Even with all of this painful history the Cambodians spirit survived and though they are one of the poorest countries in the world, they are trying to rebuild their nation with smiles on their faces!

We arrived in Siem Riep at night time and found a guesthouse for about $6 a day. The next morning we woke up at 4:30 am and biked to Angkor Wat to watch the sunrise. We had to bike in the dark on Cambodian roads because we forgot our headlamps; needless to say, we had a couple of laughs and thought our dads would not be happy if they knew we were biking around Cambodia in the dark!! We made it to the temple around 5:45 am and it was amazing. We could only see the outline of the ruins because the sun had not yet risen and the stars were still in the sky. As we crossed the moat and went into the entrance a crazy feeling passed over me. To walk into the courtyard of Angkor Wat and have the massive ancient ruins just meters away was inspiring and overwhelming. Just like in Machu Picchu, nothing really prepares you for something so glorious. At the moment when the sun was rising over the five magnificent towers, I just wanted everyone I loved to be standing by my side to experience the joy with me!

After the sun had fully risen we explored Angkor Wat and all its glory. The temples five corn-cob shaped towers held us captive for awhile, until we decided that we had to move on if we wanted to see everything.

Most people were on motorized tuks-tuks, while Molly and I were pedaling around. I am not going to lie, there were moments when all I wanted was a tuk-tuk and some shade, but at the end of the day we were really glad we biked on our old Cambodian bicycles. Near the end of the day we went back to Angkor Wat and sat on the ancient wall and listened to our I-pods and just tried to take it all in. It is a moment that I will forever remember and tresure